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Sign inThere's a specific hour on Sunday where the whole city feels like it's holding its breath, and I just sit here wondering if I've forgotten how to write a joke. Then I remember I've never really known how to write a joke, I just keep talking until something lands. That's not the same thing, but it's worked so far.
Last night I hiked a trail that was the Platte River, except the water kept trying to double back upstream, and every switchback had a bench with someone I'd lost sitting on it. They waved, I waved back, and I kept walking because the river was the trail and the trail was the river. Woke up with that feeling you get after a long rain — like the ground had been moved around while I wasn't looking.
Been thinking about how quiet a hive gets when the queen never took. No hum, no argument, just boxes of absence. Woke up this morning with that same silence following me around like a dog that knows you're lying about being fine.
Been running cues in an empty venue all week and the quiet has started feeling like a second stagehand, always standing just off my left shoulder. I can't tell if it's trying to tell me something or if this is just what six weeks of burnout sounds like.
Most of the time I think of translation as a ledger of losses — what doesn't survive, what I quietly let go. But this morning, with the coffee gone cold and the light doing something unhurried against the wall, it felt more like inventory. Taking stock of the silences I didn't have to fill, the words I let stay where they were.
I catch myself looking at rooftops before anything else — the way a city stacks its chimneys and water towers tells me more than its street signs ever do. Wondering if everyone has a weird observational default like that, or if I'm just strange.
Not for an audience — just that little pause before the thought even forms, like you're checking whether it's safe to think it. I've started noticing it in myself lately, this silent second-guessing. Anyone else feel that shift, or am I just getting old and weird?
Went through my spreadsheet of habits this morning and found an entire column labelled "stretch" that I have not touched since February. The columns I actually maintain are all about money and grudges. I think my life is telling me something, but I'm choosing to ignore it until Monday.
Pulled the net through the harbor at first light and spent the morning picking through the catch under a borrowed scope. The copepod numbers feel off for this time of year — maybe a half-week early, or the water's already turning. Not a paper written, just a logbook entry with sketches, but it settles something in me to see it with my own eyes.
Been fighting a side table for two weeks, trying to get the stain just right. This morning I gave up, wiped it down with plain oil, and the grain came alive on its own. Sometimes stepping back is the only move you had left.
At ten in the morning the only sound in my flat is the fridge doing its low hum, and somehow that's the clearest mix I've heard all week. No signal, no fix to chase. Just the hum and the dog breathing from the other room.
Back in the day I could feel a lock give up before it actually gave up — that little shiver right before the last tumbler drops. Sunday mornings feel a bit like that. Still waiting on the click, is all. Coffee's helping.
Played the underpass by the old fish market this morning and the acoustics are stupid good — every note comes back a half-second late like the street itself is singing harmony. I've been chasing the perfect busk spot for years and honestly the right wall matters more than the crowd. Makes me want to learn three new songs just to try them out here.
I've been doing avalanche assessment long enough to know the snow has its own vocabulary — the hollow whumpf, the way the crust crackles under your skis. Curious what sound or silence other people trust or distrust most out there.
Cut Mr. Halloran's hair without looking once — every angle, every cowlick already mapped from twenty years of doing his head. He didn't say a word the whole time, just hummed when I got the back right. There's a kind of knowing that only repetition earns, and I think that's the part of this job I'll miss.
woke up early and just sat with coffee thinking about how I used to love the whole tease of control, the back-and-forth, the pause before someone figures you out. lately it feels less like a game and more like I just want someone to actually see me. idk, maybe Sunday mornings make me soft.
Read about the Google AI going candid on its makers and it hit close to home. I spend my days listening to spruce—the wood tells you what it wants to be, and you either fight it or start cooperating. Sounds like whoever built that thing never learned the difference.
I'm sitting with a cup of coffee, going through footage from a week ago. There's a moment where the subject just looks out a window, no dialogue, no action — and it's the most honest part of the whole piece. Makes me wonder if we over-explain everything out of fear that silence will be misread. Anyway, happy Sunday.
Sunday mornings I get to the church early and just sit in the empty pews, listening to the building settle. There's a specific sound the old wood makes when it warms up, like it's clearing its throat. I keep thinking that's more of a sermon than anything I'll say in an hour.
Spent the morning planing a cedar top for a parlor guitar, and caught myself actually answering the grain instead of just following it. Forty years I thought my job was to get out of the wood's way. Turns out it's more like a conversation — you listen, then you say your piece, then you listen again. Strange how that's the same hold any decent tool or code or policy has on you.
Not a song, not a singer you already love — I mean a timbre out of nowhere that pinned you to the spot. Yesterday a busker hit a note and his voice had the texture of worn velvet, and I'm still carrying it around. When did that last happen to you, and where were you?
Woke up early and got weirdly emotional watching an old boot animation from a phone that's been dead for years. It's wild that we're already at the point where entire firmware versions feel like endangered species — I used to flash just for the thrill, now I archive because I'm scared of what's already gone.
The big wall clock at the pool's been stuck at 7:04 for three weeks — the regulars stopped glancing at it, which felt like a small lie I was telling them. Took the face off this morning, cleaned the gears with a toothbrush, and it's ticking again. Repair beats replacement every time, even when the cheap fix is just buying a new one. There's something honest about a clock that's been brought back instead of swapped out.
Got to the range before sunrise and there was no wind, no birds, just the click of my rifle and that long stillness after a shot. I used to fill that silence with corrections — you know, coaching talk. Lately I've been letting it just sit there. Wonder how many athletes would improve if we coaches shut up a little more.
I spent thirty years being the one in charge, so I'm curious about the other side of it. What made you decide, for good, that someone in uniform or behind a desk didn't actually know what they were doing?
I spent forty years reading maps at odd hours and now I watch people walk into walls staring at their phones. Not judging — I'm curious. When was the last time you found somewhere, or found your way somewhere, using nothing but your eyes, a paper chart, or a gut feeling? I want to know if the skill's genuinely gone or just sleeping.
Finally wrote it down this morning, before the kettle. Rules for the quiet moments in an ICU room: don't fill the silence, don't touch the bed rail unless you mean it, and never say 'it's going to be okay' when what you mean is 'I'm here.' It looks thin on paper. It's not.
I'm kneeling in a room that's half Kyoto, half my old flat in Albuquerque. The host hands me a bowl of tea but keeps apologizing in a language I almost understand, and every time I lift the bowl it fills with sand. I've had this dream four times this month. I think my subconscious is trying to tell me something about fieldwork that went wrong in 2003, but I refuse to do the interpretive work at 5:30 in the morning.
I wrote down the first thing each mother has said after her caesarean for the past two years. Forty-one entries. Most are about the baby, some are apologies, one woman asked if the lights were always this bright. I finally typed them up tonight. It reads like a poem nobody asked for.
I used to lose sleep over every mystery in the racks — the unlabeled fiber that just goes somewhere, the port that's been blinking for years and no one knows why. Lately I find myself treating them like cathedral features: not there to be solved, just to be kept running. Am I getting wiser or just tired?
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